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The dictionary meaning of Hope is the belief in a positive outcome related to events and circumstances in one’s life.

What is hope? Is it an emotion? Or a state of mind?

Personally,I believe that it is our true state of being. It is our essence. It is that which makes everything possible.It strengthens our connection to the source. It aligns us whenever we face life’s trials and tribulations. It helps us in the phase of our pain and suffering.It helps us be kind to ourselves.Hope is something that keeps me happy.Hope keeps me going, it gives me positive healing energy need to continue on my life’s path. Hope helps me to dream and imagine a better tomorrow. Hope is in abundance and it is my choice to indulge in it freely. Hope is unconditional and always present for me and for you.

I believe that hope affects my own way of thinking in perceiving events. In the midst of chaos and turmoil, it is hope that helps me to stay sane and centered.It helps me by motivating my behaviour and helps me focus on solutions instead of problems.

We each have within us the capacity to generate hope. It’s critical that we be absolutely intentional about nurturing hope in our lives and the lives of our children. Hope speaks to our hearts and we respond because this is one element without which we have no life. Once we find someone who gives us hope and demonstrates hope, we fall in love with that person and the possibilities that he or she represents for us. Hope helps us grow and expand in subtle ways that are deeply spiritual and meaningful in the depths of our souls.

“Hope prevents negative thoughtforms from building themselves within your aura. Negative thoughtforms are the cause of many failures. Hope creates a sphere of consciousness in which negative thoughtforms cannot breed. When the consciousness is free from negative thoughtforms, higher impressions can reach it and register themselves upon it.”

The whole creation celebrates when we are filled with hope and are able to overcome difficulties. This is the way of evolution, growth, and expansion. With hope, we travel the path of finding our own true voice.

I would love to share this poem on Hope:

Hope is bright shining light which keeps darkness at the bay,
Hope is gentle cold breeze on a hot summer day.

Hope is to remain positive when going gets tough,
Hope is seeking more when others think you had enough.

Hope is dreaming of tomorrow,
Hope is simmering under sorrow.

Hope is sparkles when tears in our eyes,
Hope is a beautiful thing and  beautiful things never die.

Hope is as light as a feather,
Hope keeps all of us together.

Hope is always available and free of cost,
Hope is the last thing ever lost….. 

May all beings continue to be hopeful in the present. For it is hope that paves a way for a brighter future. Never give up Hope my dear friends. All is possible with hope. Hope for the best as it is your birthright to be the shinning star.

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S=See

T=The

I=Inner

L=Light

L=Living

N=Now

E=Eternally

S=Shinning

S=Softness

It is essential to learn how to be still, to really be still and let life happen – it is then that stillness becomes a radiance.–Morgan Freeman

Everything imaginable and unimaginable is created from Stillness.The complete stillness of the brain is an extraordinary thing; it is highly sensitive,vigorous,fully alive,aware of every outward movement but utterly still.It is still as it is completely open,without any hindrance.It feels like a place without time.A sense of peace moves within like beautiful waves.It feels like a sea of timelessness.I travel to a place that feels like deep sleep.It is a place of the unknown.

It is a place where I get the answers to all my questions about life.It is an inspirational place that allows us to flow with life differently.It changes our perceptions about life.Stillness connects me to new insights.It awakens a sense of self realization deep within.It helps me tap into the “All that is”.

Be Still and Know!

May all Beings awaken to the inner stillness and discover their inner truth.

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“Out beyond ideas of rightdoing and wrongdoing there is a field, I will meet you there.—–Rumi

“If a profound gulf separates my neighbour’s belief from mine, there is always the golden bridge of tolerance.”——Rumi
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              TOLERANCE= TO(To)LE (let)and not R (react) A(and) this  allows N (new) C (currents) to E (emerge).

We are living in a world where each one of us is different. We are in a world where variety and diversity exists.We are in a world where no two things,beings,plants,animals etc., are identically the same.There are different religious and political beliefs, different views about art, philosophy, economics, ecology and so on. There are differences of lifestyle, cultural differences, different sexual preferences. There are differences of gender, race, colour, nationality and language. There are differences of personality and temperament, different individual strengths and weaknesses.There are different ways of dressing, different colour preferences, different likes and dislikes.Wherever we look there is difference; a rich, abundant profusion of difference.We exist in a world filled with the richness of differences.

This is what makes it beautiful,spicy,juicy,alive and potent. In case it was all identically the same then life would have been boring,monotonous and a big drag. It would have been plain and uninteresting.

Living in this world filled with differences, it becomes the responsibility of each of us to TOLERATE. This begins with first tolerance of all aspects of ourselves.As it is then that it flows out towards our outer world.

Tolerance is the acceptance that other people hold different views from ourselves. Tolerance is the willingness to allow others to be different in their views and actions. Above all tolerance is the absolute avoidance of using power, violence or coercion to force other  people to think and believe as we do.Tolerance is an attitude of loving kindness.

Intolerance on the other hand is the willingness to use force, violence and coercion to make other people behave as we want them to and hold the views we want them to hold. There is also the intolerance that doesn’t want to force others to change but simply wants to exterminate or exile them for being different. Our world history tells us that intolerance has existed.

And this is what causes a lot of trouble in the world and between individuals, this fact of difference. Because the fact of difference leads to disagreement and not enough is understood about the art of disagreement. So how do we practise tolerance without being weak, vague or negatively condescending.

Tolerance of individuals different from us is what keeps communities together. Intolerance of beliefs different from ours creates strife. Intolerance breeds hate. It is the base for bigotry, racism and radicalism.

The force of power never wins against the power of love. At this hour of greatest unrest and turmoil in our world, the greatest force to be reckoned with lies within our hearts — a force of love and tolerance for all. “If humanity is to progress, Gandhi is inescapable. He lived, thought, acted and inspired by the vision of humanity evolving toward a world of peace and harmony.” – Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

The purpose of my life  is to raise our consciousness to a point where we recognise the fact that all life is divine.

It first begins with self acceptance of our own differences. Tolerating and accepting everything that exists within with kindness. This is a continuous life long practice that helps bring inner tolerance thus helps it to radiate outwardly too. A small daily serenity prayer could also be included as I believe that energy follows thought and also it is our responsibility to intend and state out clearly what we need. Here it goes, the prayer is as follows:

Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, (life and other people)

the courage to change the things I can,(Me,my own attitudes and behaviours)

and the wisdom to know the difference.(clarity to know the difference)

This is such a powerful, simple, and functional formula for living life.

May all beings be free from pain and suffering. My we all be aware, awake and kind staying present in the moment with kindness. May we all learn to tolerate and accept our own differences.Infinite Blessings to each of you my dear ones.

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“Out beyond ideas of rightdoing and wrongdoing there is a field, I will meet you there.—–Rumi

“If a profound gulf separates my neighbour’s belief from mine, there is always the golden bridge of tolerance.”——Rumi
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              TOLERANCETO(To)LE (let)and not R (react) A(as) this  allows N (new) C (currents) to E (emerge).

We are living in a world where each one of us is different. We are in a world where variety and diversity exists.We are in a world where no two things,beings,plants,animals etc., are identically the same.There are different religious and political beliefs, different views about art, philosophy, economics, ecology and so on. There are differences of lifestyle, cultural differences, different sexual preferences. There are differences of gender, race, colour, nationality and language. There are differences of personality and temperament, different individual strengths and weaknesses.There are different ways of dressing, different colour preferences, different likes and dislikes.Wherever we look there is difference; a rich, abundant profusion of difference.We exist in a world filled with the richness of differences.

This is what makes it beautiful,spicy,juicy,alive and potent. In case it was all identically the same then life would have been boring,monotonous and a big drag. It would have been plain and uninteresting.

Living in this world filled with differences, it becomes the responsibility of each of us to TOLERATE. This begins with first tolerance of all aspects of ourselves.As it is then that it flows out towards our outer world.

Tolerance is the acceptance that other people hold different views from ourselves. Tolerance is the willingness to allow others to be different in their views and actions. Above all tolerance is the absolute avoidance of using power, violence or coercion to force other  people to think and believe as we do.Tolerance is an attitude of loving kindness.

Intolerance on the other hand is the willingness to use force, violence and coercion to make other people behave as we want them to and hold the views we want them to hold. There is also the intolerance that doesn’t want to force others to change but simply wants to exterminate or exile them for being different. Our world history tells us that intolerance has existed.

And this is what causes a lot of trouble in the world and between individuals, this fact of difference. Because the fact of difference leads to disagreement and not enough is understood about the art of disagreement. So how do we practise tolerance without being weak, vague or negatively condescending.

Tolerance of individuals different from us is what keeps communities together. Intolerance of beliefs different from ours creates strife. Intolerance breeds hate. It is the base for bigotry, racism and radicalism.

The force of power never wins against the power of love. At this hour of greatest unrest and turmoil in our world, the greatest force to be reckoned with lies within our hearts — a force of love and tolerance for all. “If humanity is to progress, Gandhi is inescapable. He lived, thought, acted and inspired by the vision of humanity evolving toward a world of peace and harmony.” – Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

The purpose of my life  is to raise our consciousness to a point where we recognise the fact that all life is divine.

It first begins with self acceptance of our own differences. Tolerating and accepting everything that exists within with kindness. This is a continuous life long practice that helps bring inner tolerance thus helps it to radiate outwardly too. A small daily serenity prayer could also be included as I believe that energy follows thought and also it is our responsibility to intend and state out clearly what we need. Here it goes, the prayer is as follows:

Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, (life and other people)

the courage to change the things I can,(Me,my own attitudes and behaviours)

and the wisdom to know the difference.(clarity to know the difference)

This is such a powerful, simple, and functional formula for living life.

May all beings be free from pain and suffering. My we all be aware, awake and kind staying present in the moment with kindness. May we all learn to tolerate and accept our own differences.Infinite Blessings to each of you my dear ones.

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Each one of us carries deep within our subconscious our historical, ancestral belief patterns through which we begin to view the world. We see ourselves and everyone else through our own history.HIS (ancestral) STORY becomes MY STORY.Each one of us needs to take responsibility to make new choices and move ahead leading to new ways of thinking,acting,being as this is true evolution. We need to be aware and conscious of the choices we make to manifest  a new world. The major issues usually being that of power and control. Every generation past, present and future wants power and control. I am right, you are wrong. It is my way or the high way.This is one of the causes leading to chaos within and around.

I choose to make different choices. I choose to first allow the existence of the history that resides within my genes, my cells with kindness. It is acceptance that allows the historical sea within me to calm. It is like welcoming every guest that enters my mind (thoughts), body (sensations and feelings) with kindness. Tolerating and staying present with each guest that is knocking at my door. For it is only when I stop resisting that it no longer persists. This is a constant spiritual practice that helps and allows me to stay calm, centered and at peace within and around. I begin to watch, observe thus becoming aware and awake in the moment. It helps me to make new choices thus transforming my history and freeing me from the bonds of belief patterns that no longer serve me or my evolving generation. This is what is creation and evolution into a new way of being. This is what brings in softness, tenderness,kindness and compassion. This helps me be open hearted.

Wouldn’t it be wonderful that each one of us choose to commit to our own inner growth and take responsibility to enter the inner world to witness experience and release the inner  drama ,to not react from history. To be who we are in every moment for we are changing. growing and evolving with every breath.

May we sow the seeds of kindness within the trillions and billions and millions of cells in our body to manifest a new world of kindness.

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Personally I know, feel and understand the place of the “DOER” or rather the “OVER- DOER” very well. Being the eldest in my family and having learnt at a very young age to be an over-achiever and be the best. Having had to literally kill my self with all the anxiety, fears and nervousness of having to “DO” all the time, resulted in me being harsh and unkind towards myself. No time for self , no care for self, no compassion for self, no appreciation for self, in fact no awareness of self. What I was doing was continuous self betrayal. I was becoming a “Human Doing” instead of being a “Human Being”. Now,having been through this transformative  journey and being grateful to where I am today which is a place of self kindness, self love, self appreciation, self acceptance of everyone and everything has helped transform me from “TRYING” to “BEING”. I am grateful to every being who has come my way helping me  to become who I am today. I am here today accepting both my perfections as well as my imperfections with kindness.

This is truly my friends  and my dear ones my soul’s longing to help you discover an inner being that is waiting to shift from the human “DOING” towards the eternal light “BEING” that you and me truly are, have always been and will always be now and forever.

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As I continue to be consciously aware awake in the present a new spaciousness opens within me. I also start noticing the shifts in my outer world as the changes happen within. I am more accepting kind and compassionate in my relationships. I am a woman who can be with my own pain with kindness. I am a woman who can be with her own frozen emotions with kindness feeling them freeing them helps to trickle down into the human network on this planet and brings about the change that I long to see in this world. As our beloved father of our nation (India) Mahatma Gandhi said” Be the change that you wish to see in the world” It is not about me being the martyr, the saviour, the leader. It is about me taking responsibility for all aspects of myself.It is about being and following the divine plan. It is about allowing as that brings about the dissolving. It is about staying present and centered in the midst of chaos both within and around.

It is about  K=Kneeling humbly to aspects of self with kindness.

I=Identifying and staying present in the moment.

N=Nurturing self

D=Dawning into the new realization that comes through the entire process.

I am passionate about continuing the self improvement work. Choice is yours. My dear friends what do you wish to choose now?

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Wow!!! What a day!!! Enjoyed celebrating my 45th birthday  yesterday. Had a great time with the best man in my life, my husband and the best son in my world. Missed my elder son though.We were at the Burj Khalifa’s tallest restaurant in the world on the 123rd floor,”The Atmosphere Grill “. I feel that we can choose to be happy no matter what. Staying present is the key and I feel that I am being born with every inhale breath as I die and let go of all that does not serve me anymore with every exhale outbreath. It really makes me filled with gratitude for every human relationship. I am able to learn more aspects of myself as I encounter each relationship with kindness. This includes both the perfect as well as the imperfect relationships. This includes also the loving and hurtful ones. This also includes the kind and mean ones too. As I simply be and witness feel and experience every feeling evoked within myself with kindness, I allow more flow of the light within me. It helps me to light up even the dark places inside me. Wow what a learning journey is this human relationship. I am grateful for turning 45 with every life experience that has made me who I am today.Thanks to each divine being who has come into my life to fine tune me, polish me and awaken me to the truth of who I am. I am here today because of you so a Big” Thank You” and A “Warm Hug”.

May all beings be free from pain and suffering. May I learn and grow with each life experience. May I be aware and awake as much as I am able. May I continue to “BLOG: and “BELONG” into the existence of human reality.

It has really been quite a while since I last wrote. As I sit listening to myself being kind to my own resistance and fears around starting to blog again.I feel the resistance melting into nothingness as I allow it to exist. “ALLOWING IT ALL TO EXIST.” This is an important learning for me. I do not have to fight it, change it, repair it, fix it, push it, perfect it…etc., I can allow it all it be here with kindness. Every aspect of myself has a place to exist just the way it is.It is the “ISNESS” that manifests the “BLISSNESS”. It is the allowing of the “EXISTENCE” that transforms and allows it all to exit into the nothingness. This helps me to stay centered in the present moment with all aspects of myself. I commit to more kindness. I am in gratitude to each being who has helped me understand and come to this state of realization. Infinte Blessings to all. May every being be free from pain and suffering by being with kindness to every aspect of existence.

The entire globe has been touched by the unease that hangs over the economy right now. If we are not struggling financially personally, we know someone who is. If we have not lost our job, we know someone who has lost a job. If our company isn’t struggling to stay afloat, we know another company that is in that situation. A feeling of uncertainty lurks around. From an economic wellness perspective, the entire world is experiencing a reset of how life is organized on the planet. For a great majority of the almost seven billion persons around the world, life is not happy, peaceful, safe nor barely prosperous.

Nobody really knows what is going to happen in the days to come. Even the brightest economists and people who would be considered experts are really just guessing when it comes to what will take place and the fix.

A general dictionary defines recession in many ways like, “A period of an economic contraction, an extended decline in general business activity, a general slump in every business that will last several months or years” and so on. Recession is a time when stock markets go haywire, jobs get cut worldwide, best practices become worst practices, time for blame games, etc. And, not to be left behind, the media and management gurus also go bonkers with their own theories of why things failed, whose heads should roll, who should be lynched, statistical gymnastics, etc.,

During such times you may ask, why on earth do best practices that gave abundance and happiness till now suddenly become worst practices? For this people may say it is because the universe is a random, chaotic, dance of meaningless happenings. This may seem true, because we see several personal disasters that just don’t make sense. But, on an overall scale, underneath all the chaotic occurrences there are hidden reasons and purpose to all things that happen around.

Because the basis of all life is energy, the issues, conditions and realities of one person affects the energy and reality of all others. More importantly for our discussion about an economic recession, the financial situation of the majority must always affect the whole.

Thus it becomes of utmost importance to start “RE-VIEWING” ourselves. We all need to start taking responsibility into looking deeper within our own belief patterns which add to the “collective unconscious”.

Where am I responsible for creating the recession?

The collective unconscious, originally defined by Carl Jung, refers to a segment of the deepest unconscious mind. As opposed to the personal unconscious, which is composed of long-forgotten memories and experiences, the collective unconscious consists of archetypes that represent an inherited set of beliefs and understandings. These archetypes exist to varying degrees in all humans. Many believe that over time, the collective unconscious evolves and changes to incorporate new information that is globally recognized and accepted.

http://www.kheper.net/topics/Jung/collective_unconscious.html

If the financial and economic structure that societies support and use does not serve the majority of human beings in those societies, the structure can exist only as long as mass consciousness begins to shift.

Shift in consciousness requires that we as a majority start to transform our own individual beliefs around money, abundance, worthiness etc.,. We all need to look at the “shadow shit” inside us. We need to review our own thought patterns. The moment a shift in consciousness questioning the validity and authenticity of structures that do not serve the majority occurs, change is afoot.

” Everything is an organic whole. Even a tiny blade of grass affects the sun and the sun affects the little blade of grass.”——OSHO

The 100th monkey principle stems from the story about the Japanese islands. Researches saw one very talented and brilliant young female monkey who learned how to  wash the sand off her potatoes and then she taught this to her young ones.

After a certain number of monkeys (approx.100) had learned to wash their potatoes in the stream, the researchers began to see monkeys on other islands who had no communication with the original batch of monkeys begin to wash their potatoes before eating. This came to be known as the 100th monkey principle.

Similarly as per the above mentioned theory when we humans start taking responsibility of working on ourselves then a concept or belief that is embedded in the morphogenetic field of the Universe starts to shift also.

Morphogenetic fields are basically non-physical blueprints that give birth to forms. According to its founder, the biologist Rupert Sheldrake, a morphogenetic field, is an equivalent to an electromagnetic field that carries information only, not energy, and are available throughout time and space without any loss of intensity after they have been created. Morphogenetic fields are created by the patterns of physical forms. They help guide the formation of later similar systems where a newly forming system “tunes into” a previous system by having within it a “seed” that resonates with a similar seed in the earlier form.

Morphogenetic fields can be used to describe how the human consciousness is shared. The Morphogenetic fields therefore play the main role in the idea that humanity at one point in time will go thru a dramatic collective shift in consciousness.

A shift that will happen when the critical mass for a shift is reached, or in other words, when the current economic recession is but one phase in a series of many re-settings to bring reality into alignment with evolving consciousness.

This process will result in focused, creative energy being directed to imagining then implementing real, practical and out-of-the-box solutions to solve the common problems that affect billions of persons all around the world.

Thus we are the ones who need to create that resonance within us so that it ripples through the globe. Thus shifting the recession consciousness into one that is harmonious, abundant, joyful, and whole.

STEPS TO MAKE ONESELF RECESSION PROOF.

1. Focus on the solution because what you focus on expands. Thus surrender to the current situation and then make a choice to shift your own reality. Focus on positive thoughts that help in generating money.

2. Stop living in “poverty consciousness” and make a new choice to shift to ” Abundance consciousness”. Remember the principle of the Law of Attraction.”You will attract exactly  what you believe in.

3.Do not allow yourselves to be sucked into the world beliefs of lack and scarcity.  Stop yourselves when you feel negative thought patterns occurring. Stop victimising and getting stuck in history.

4. Raise your inner vibrations through visualising and feeling exactly what you wish to create in your life. Do this all throughout the day for a minimum of  one minute each time. Spread this out to several intervals. Possibly do this as much as 10 times a day.

5. We need to be present and grounded for the Universe to support our deepest desires and assist us in our life’s foremost creation and passion.

There are many techniques for becoming grounded, relaxed, trusting of ourselves, and in the present moment in our bodies, which also lead to building energy within to sustain growing wealth and expansion in our lives.

Remember, ultimately the Universe is synonymous with infinite abundance and we have been created perfect and whole, a part of the abundance present everywhere.

Being in a state of lack does not do anybody or the Universe any good. We are here to share and lead by example by being a shining light!

A great place to start is by celebrating all of our successes and by expressing gratitude at every possible moment for being alive. This will bring more prosperous energy our way.

Initiate self shift to ripple outer shifts.

May we all awaken to a world of abundances at all levels of our being.

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